Whole Woman October  ·  Oct 7–31

I hear you.

A private circle for women who are tired of coming last, and tired of not being believed. This October, we're sharing small moments of care for your spirit, body, heart and mind.

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Why we're starting here

I am tired of women telling the truth and the first question being whether we believe them.

You're overreacting. It's stress. It's hormones. You're too sensitive.

I want there to be another woman beside her saying: I hear you.

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Share your moment

Four weeks, four ways to care for you

Three simple prompts a week. Snap a photo or share a moment on Instagram or in our group. No perfect answers needed.

Week 1 · Oct 7–12

Spiritual

Purpose, reflection and quiet.

“What's giving you peace today?”
Week 2 · Oct 13–18

Physical

Movement, rest and breast health.

“Take a picture of your 30-minute walk.”
Week 3 · Oct 19–25

Emotional

Resilience, confidence and self-worth.

“Share a memory that makes you laugh.”
Week 4 · Oct 26–31

Mental

Clarity, learning and focus.

“What are you reading or learning?”

Tag your moments #IHearYou  ·  Follow along at @sharedlifedaily

Free guide The I Hear You Guide What to say when a woman tells you something hard
Free when you join

The words most of us were never taught

When a woman trusts you with something painful, it's easy to freeze, fix or ask the wrong question. This short printable guide helps you show up, and helps you trust yourself too.

  • What to say, and what not to say, when she tells you something hard
  • Five simple ways to listen well
  • What to say at the doctor when you feel dismissed
  • Where to find support, any time
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How it works

Four simple steps

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The I Hear You Guide lands in your inbox right away.

Join the circle

Step into our private Facebook group, where women listen first.

Share your moment

Take part in the weekly prompts, as much or as little as you like.

Breast health week · Oct 13–18

Believe your body

You know when something isn't right. During Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we're helping each other build the habits, and the confidence, to act on it.

Join us

Oct 14Brette's story: losing her mom and sister, and what they taught her about love.
Oct 16“I booked it” day. Book your mammogram, then celebrate with us.
40–74The ages at which women are advised to get a screening mammogram every two years.

Screening guidance: U.S. Preventive Services Task Force, 2024. Talk with your doctor about what's right for you.

What you'll get

Free, and yours to keep

The I Hear You Guide

A short printable on listening well and trusting yourself.

Weekly prompts

Three simple ways a week to pause and care for yourself.

The Sunday “I Hear You” post

A place in the group to share what you're carrying and be heard.

Stories that matter

Honest essays from women who've lived it, every week in October.

Early access

First look at new SharedLife content, tools and resources.

Real connection

Women in every chapter of life, encouraging each other.

Questions

Is it really free?

Yes. Founding Membership, the guide and the group are all free.

Who is SharedLife for?

Women in every chapter of life, especially those navigating change: empty nests, career shifts, caregiving, health and new beginnings.

Do I need Facebook?

Our community lives in a private Facebook group. You'll still get the guide and our emails if you'd rather not join it.

Is the group private?

Yes. Only members can see who's in the group and what's shared there.

What if I join after October 7?

Join anytime. Every prompt stays up, so you can start whenever you're ready.

Woman encouraging woman

You don't have to carry it alone.

Come as you are. We'll save you a seat.

If something here brings up something heavy, you're not alone. The RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline is free and confidential, 24/7: 800-656-4673 or rainn.org.